fix: audit findings — security, i18n, validation, dead code (v0.3.2)

Quality:
- Q-5: Allow relative session commands (e.g. niri-session), greetd resolves PATH
- Q-3: Socket read+write timeouts with proper error logging
- Q-2: Remove unused PowerError::Timeout variant
- Q-M1: i18n for all login_worker error messages (new: unexpected_greetd_response)
- Q-M2: Explicit INVALID_LIST_POSITION check in session dropdown
- Q-M4: Log SVG loader.close() errors instead of silencing
- Q-M6: Testable persistence functions with proper roundtrip tests

Security:
- S-2: Validate GTK theme name (alphanumeric, _, -, +, . only)
- S-3: Log file created with mode 0o640
- S-4: Cache files (last-user, last-session) created with mode 0o600

Performance:
- P-3: Single symlink_metadata() call instead of exists() + is_symlink()
- P-4: Avoid Vec allocation in IPC send_message (two write_all calls)

Config:
- Update example GTK theme to Colloid-Catppuccin

config/moongreet.toml

@@ -5,4 +5,4 @@
 # Absolute path to wallpaper image
 background = "/usr/share/backgrounds/wallpaper.jpg"
 # GTK theme for the greeter UI
-gtk-theme = "catppuccin-mocha-lavender-standard+default"
+gtk-theme = "Colloid-Catppuccin"